Dear Adeola-mi,

Much more than our random middays, midnights, half-asleep and wide awake “I love you” thank you for constantly showing me that you love me. Your love is an action word, you are constantly doing. I love you but that doesn’t capture it all, I’m very much in love with the way that you love me. […]

Memoirs of a Once Precious Love

#LoveWednesday #Adeola-mi #Memoirs A man once told me he lost his wife two months prior to that time and I couldn’t figure out how he managed to survive. This is me, who cannot dare imagine not speaking with the ‘Lady I Love’ for a few weeks, talk less of not seeing her again. I remember […]


photo Someday, in the nearest future, when me and some of my brothers and friends like Charis, Tayo, PLove, Shola…, have finally become a fuller physical representation of what we are today; those days when we have had more cash and time to play around, some ladies will see us in the newspapers and […]

At a Crossroad

I stand at a crossroad My heart breathing heavily The battle ahead; retreat behind What shall I do? Where shall I head? Give up on Love kè? Láí Láí, Olorun májèé! I tell myself I will fight till I draw my last breath But then, Mòjà mòsá lafi n m’akínkanjú lójú ogun” The ram must […]

Few thoughts on Love

Here are some of my thoughts on Love this week, watch out later for a poem from one of my #Adeola-mi collections on #LoveWednesday tonight I can’t count the number of women I know who are struggling through life. I had always wondered about the men who did this to them but now I wonder […]